Dream Interpretation: The Ominous Eyes and Teeth That Violated Me

Full Narrative of the Dream

In my dream, I found myself in a place where my husband was also present, apparently managing everything and giving orders. There was a girl accompanying me whose face I do not recall. In the dream, I was shackled with a bracelet and chain, and confined within a rectangular frame. It was as if both the girl and I were to be executed.

A black guard, whose only visible features

against his dark skin were his white eyes and teeth, violated me. I allowed this to happen in exchange for my freedom and the opportunity to deliver a message. A significant amount of his essence was released. Afterward, I was able to meet a tall man in black clothing, whose face I could not see. I held a blue or green pen in my hand, one of those old scented pens with beautiful colors, and I wanted to write a message. My husband was also present and seemed pleased with the situation. I forcefully tried to write something on a box in front of the man, but my pen was not cooperating. There was a piece of paper on the corner of the box; I tried again, but I could not write the message of liberation and deliver it to the tall man. It felt as though everyone in that environment wanted to help me.

Description of Psychological Distress

In this dream, a profound sense of helplessness and inability to self-express is evident. The chains and frame symbolize imposed limitations, restraining the individual from self-expression and achieving their desires. The husband’s dominance in the dream and the compulsion to obey indicate a controlling pattern in the individual’s relationships, where their voice is unheard and they are kept under control. The violation in the dream symbolizes boundary infringement and loss of autonomy, where one is compelled to surrender for temporary freedom. The unresponsive pen also symbolizes inadequate tools and the inability to express oneself, rendering the individual incapable of conveying important messages. This situation leads to a deep feeling of despair and frustration as the individual strives to make their voice heard, but numerous obstacles prevent them from doing so.

The root of this psychological issue lies in the communication patterns and power dynamics experienced in real life. These patterns may stem from past experiences, socio-cultural pressures, or family models that encourage silence and obedience. These analyses suggest that the individual needs to review and alter these patterns to find their voice and express themselves more effectively in their relationships.

Psychotherapeutic Solutions

For the distress described in the previous section, the following exercises are recommended:

Exercise “Finding the Lost Voice”

• 🎯 Objective: Express unsaid emotions and thoughts, release censorship and judgment.
• ✍️ Execution Method: Daily, write a portion of your unexpressed emotions and thoughts, however brief—without considering censorship or judgment from others.
• 💡 Example: Write a letter to someone who has caused you pain in the past, without sending it.

Exercise “Strengthening the Means of Expression”

• 🎯 Objective: Revive the hand-mind-language connection, break the cycle of helplessness.
• ✍️ Execution Method: Free writing with colored tools (pens/pencils) to recover the sense of creativity and the ability to self-express.
• 💡 Example: Write childhood memories using colored pens and simple drawings.

Exercise “Rewriting the Dream”

• 🎯 Objective: Alter mental patterns and create a sense of power and control.
• ✍️ Execution Method: Recreate the dream with a different ending—freedom from the frame and success in delivering the message of liberation to the man in black, with the support of the helping crowd.
• 💡 Example: Imagine that in the dream, you successfully deliver your message to the tall man, and he helps you break free from the frame.

Recommendation for Self-Awareness

• 🎯 Objective: Identify and become aware of dominant patterns in real life.
• ✍️ Execution Method: Identify real-life situations where the pattern of control and restraint is prevalent (e.g., in family, work, or broader relationships).
• 💡 Example: Write a list of situations where you feel your voice is unheard and you are under the control of others.

Diagnosing Unconscious Obedience Mechanisms

• 🎯 Objective: Deeper understanding of unconscious emotions and reactions.
• ✍️ Execution Method: Meditate on the feeling of captivity and restraint – at what moments and by whom (or psychological mechanisms) are these feelings triggered.
• 💡 Example: During meditation, pay attention to the emotions experienced when feeling controlled and restrained, and try to find the roots of these feelings.

Final Conclusion

The ultimate message of this dream is that even in situations where you feel trapped in cycles of restraint, the capacity for liberation and self-expression exists within you. The dream is not just a warning, but also a suggestion for change. By strengthening your means of expression and redefining the power dynamics within your inner network, you can gradually break free from this cycle and find your true voice. Sometimes, it’s enough to hear your own voice to know the way.